There's no doubt that Oprah's become the icon of women and influence. We can't argue with that, can we? Riveting guests, great stories, attention drawn to phenomenal causes and a shining example of a woman who stands on her own, she's paved a way in history for the influential woman.
Want to know a secret, though? I think I need to stop watching her show. Working for myself offers me the blessing of flexibility and access to a television each day when "Oprah's on!" It's been a regular thing that I tune in for an hour and offer myself a reprieve from the day when Oprah's on. It's been my little break.
I'm sharing with you today why that's going to stop - and it's got little to do with Oprah herself!
Reason #1 I'm Turning Oprah Off: Because I've been spending an hour tuning into to someone else's thoughts other than my own. If I took that hour and went for a walk, meditated, called a friend...whatever I choose, that hour would better enrich my life because I'm tuning in to ME.
Reason #2 I'm Turning Oprah Off: Whatever she or her guests can do, I can do, too. And in many cases, I already do. I volunteer in the community, I've written a book and I have a career that helps people build a fulfilling life. The difference between Oprah and me? I have less press :) And that's OK. I think I'd like to continue doing what I'm doing and with whom I'm doing it and skip the prime time coverage!
Reason # 3 I'm Turning Oprah Off: Mobility. If I'm stuck in front of the TV or within earshot, how can I really give myself the freedom to do what I want or need to do at any given time during the day? By untethering myself from the tube, I can go anywhere, talk to anyone, send emails, prepare presentations and (gasp) even run to the grocery store. Life is boundless if I unplug from the gleaming glass screen.
Reason #4 I'm Turning Oprah Off: My clients. They inspire me each and every day in more ways than any TV show could. Their stories, hopes, dreams and desires are fuel enough for me to know I've chosen the right path in life. While Oprah's stories are great, yours are better.
So there you go! I hate to say farewell to Oprah and I'm sure I'll catch her every now and then, but I'm happy with my decision.
Women and influence - it begins with US. We don't need to tune in to a TV show to see it and live it. I'm glad to live a life devoted to women and influence, and even happier that my electric bill might be a little lighter after taking out 20 hours a month! Now, I love being wrong, but I think I'm pretty spot-on about this one...
